Courageous Loving

         If You’re a Smart, Conscious & Busy Women Who’s Ready to Take Your Relationship to Greater Connection and Intimacy

Victoria Will Take You There

Imagine feeling completely in sync with the love of your life.  He navigates every twist and turn with you and holds your heart as the sacred jewel it is.  You communicate with each other flawlessly with complete honesty and vulnerability.  The spark of connection burns brightly and draws you two closer together in a delicious bliss bubble of love.

And yet, if you’re like so many women I work with who are in relationships, chances are this feels a bit far fetched.  Instead of having a deep connection with your guy, you have a myriad of complaints about him, like these:

  • I feel trapped in the endless loop of the same arguments ~ feeling hopeless.
  • I crave more emotional support, but his mind is always elsewhere ~ feeling lonely.
  • I ache for more passion and romance ~ where did we go?
  • I’m tired of him going away or getting angry all the time ~ feeling disheartened.
  • I’m exhausted from doing it all by myself ~ feeling resentful.
  • I wish he would discover what He is doing to us ~ feeling frustrated.
  • I’m ready for a more intimate and conscious connection ~ yearning to grow

Do any of these feelings resonate with you?

If so, you’re in good company. Studies show that at least one-third of all women in long-term relationships are unsatisfied with what they are currently experiencing.

Picture what it would feel like to be like to be with a man who you treasure (and treasures you back).  When you’re with him, you relax into you, express how you feel, own what you need, set clear boundaries and express your heart’s deepest desires; while feeling your man present and supportive like never before. When connection permeates every aspect of your union, it’s delicious! You can both relax into your own passions and purpose.

This isn’t a fairy tale.

Women carry the power to transform relationship through the practices of Courageous Loving.

JOIN Victoria for six weeks of personal sessions that includes teachings and exercises that will align you with your feminine power so you have the tools to create greater connection and intimacy. You’ll discover how to:

  • Ignite the number ONE priority that you must implement to transform your life and relationship, and keep your man present and cherishing your heart.
  • Put on your newly cleaned Love Lenses to help you see how men and women think, speak and act differently, and what you can do to shift into a new dynamic relationship.
  • Use your energy wisely to boost him up to greater presence, so he supports you and the relationship with greater willingness.
  • Dissipate the 7 relationship toxins that cause separation, perpetuate unhappiness and kill intimacy.
  • Communicate impeccably with clarity, heart and kindness to increase respect.
  • Create confident intimate connection through touch, words and actions that ignite passion and bring the One heart into union.

If you are ready to ignite Courageous Loving inside of you and learn how to bring these magical skills to relationship…

I invite you to join me to ground in the nuts and bolts that all relationships need to thrive. Sign up for a 6 week series of personal one-on-one sessions, by phone or skype, to raise the state of your relationship. Contact Victoria at


Shout Outs to Loving – Women who have experienced Victoria’s Lean Into Loving & Courageous Loving Courses.

“Victoria’s Lean into Loving class taught me how to engage differently with my partner, specifically from a place of love and respect. It shifted my perspective and understanding of our dance and ultimately that helped us break some old patterns and brought us closer. We communicate better, we are more playful, I feel desired, and he feels empowered. All these things have brought new life and new love into my relationship. The biggest lesson for me at the end of this class was that in order to keep growing my relationship I have to tend to it, put it first, cultivate our dance, that keeps it rich and growing.” L.L.M.

“I listened to my husband in ways I had not before—simply accepting what he chose to share. He started sharing more immediately and I felt how important I am to him. I realized I am probably the only one who really listens to him deeply and this felt sacred.” ~ R.K.

“I feel more connected to the juicy delight of partnership, polarity, love making, and intimacy. These are some of the most delicious gifts in life and I am embracing them more open-heartedly!” ~ J.O.

“I feel I have a better understanding of the dance of relationship and the creature that my man is and how he operates. This has been really helpful! I’ve been finding the difference and balance between self-care and selfishness. And, I get it better now that for a relationship to be “successful”, there must be a constant return to love, commitment and forgiveness.” ~ A. L.

“After attending Courageous Loving, I noticed a difference in myself and my relationship immediately. I honestly feel like I have a new magical power! The improvements in myself and my partner are obvious and instant, and I am more aware than I have ever been. Thank you Victoria & Melanie!” ~ M.H.


Victoria Allen, M.A., is a marriage and family therapist, retreat leader, spiritual mentor and founder of Raise Your State.

For over 3 decades she has empowered women around the globe to extinguish menacing fears and shed limiting beliefs, so they are able to bring forth their courageous and radiant love into relationships.

She believes that women carry the transforming power to introduce fierce self-love into their lives, make loving choices, and courageously cultivate fulfilling and intimate relationships.

With decades of experience and study with some of the world’s greatest spiritual masters and healers – including Don Miguel Ruiz (Best-selling author of The Four Agreements®) – she brings a wealth of expertise and experience to help women access the Courageous Love that is already inside of them.